Matchmaker
Harry Thaw had met the Earl of Yarmouth at one of his travels and when the Earl came to visit to the United States of America (USA), he stayed at the Thaw residence in Washington. Harry introduced the Earl to his sister Miss Mary Thaw and shortly after they got engaged. “The match was arranged, it is said, by Mr. ‘Harry’ Thaw, who is Miss Thaw’s full brother.” (TT, v. 49, 1903, p. 4) Although Town Topics reported that Harry did not selflessly arrange the engagement between the Earl of Yarmouth and his sister. Look at “Attention-seeking” for more information!
Lavish
Often times, Harry Thaw’s behavior is commented on when connected to his wealth. A rather vague description of him regarding the engagement of his sister Miss Mary Thaw to the Earl of Yarmouth paints a certain picture of Harry’s societal efforts: “Mr. ‘Harry’ Thaw puts frantic efforts into societal recognition in Washington. He startled Paris by his prodigal entertainments.”( TT, v. 49, 1903, p. 8)
After Harry Thaw married Evelyn Nesbit, a formal introduction was organized in Pittsburgh, PA, Harry’s hometown. Not only is his current behavior described but Town Topics referred to similar, earlier behavior. "Harry ever hovered near, the light of love beaming in his eyes and a Gargantuan roll of bills that bought everything in sight and mollified even remotely possible adverse remarks. It was like old times to see Harry scattering his wealth, though previous occasions were not always so worthy.” ( TT, v. 54, 1905, p. 9)
Attention-seeking
Apparently, Harry Thaw's motivation for arranging an engagement between his sister, Miss Mary Thaw, and the Earl of Yarmouth was driven more by his personal desire to be connected to an earl. “’Harry’ Thaw, whose ambition it is to be the brother-in-law of a future peer (Lord Yarmouth), is doing his best to bring about an amicable arrangement.” & “He [Harry Thaw] wants to make stock with the Earl of Yarmouth, because his sister Mary is said to be engaged to him.” ( TT, v. 49, 1903, p. 8)
Vulgar
Town Topics published this commentary: “The noble Marquis and his distinguished Marchioness thought the Thaws, I am told, extremely ordinary people. This is much to be regretted, because it would be pleasant to feel that those who are going to live at their ease on the money we have provided at least think well of us. But, I suppose, all parties to a transaction cannot invariably be pleased, and the ethics of vulgarity are, after all, rather a matter of geography.” ( TT, v. 49, 1903, p. 4)
”Rich”
The Thaw family was wealthy due to their connection to the coal and mining industry. Harry Thaw’s father, William Thaw, built the family's fortune through his involvement in the industry. Town Topics mentioned the Thaw’s wealth many times. “They will not be so far away that the beams of the Thaw gold may not be seen on the horizon. . . .” (TT, v. 49, 1903, p. 4) & “Mrs. Thaw, who has contributed vast sums of money to the support of churches and missionaries, appears . . .” & “The presentation took place at the Homoeopathic Hospital Fair . . . and as Mrs. Thaw, mère, is president of the Homoeopathic Hospital Board, besides being richer than most of those who (in private) elevated their . . . noses . . .” (TT, v. 54, 1905, pp. 7–9) & “Harry K. Thaw, of the Pittsburg millionaire family, the brother of the Countess of Yarmouth, waited, . . .” (TT, v. 55, 1906, p. 1)
”Festive”
In this passage, Town Topics characterizes Harry Thaw as both a lavish individual and someone who took pleasure in hosting elaborate feasts and dinner parties. “Sip pleasure while you live, nay, cram it rather down your maw, Appears to be the motto of the festive Harry Thaw; And oftentimes I wish, amid this weary mundane strife, That I could get a tithe of joy which he gets out of life.” (TT, v. 51, 1904, Vers de Société)
Spoiling
This adjective was chosen to show Harry’s interest in Evelyn Nesbit. She had to spend some time in hospital and during that stay he gave her a lot of attention. But he was not the only one who tried to woo Nesbit—Stanford White, who would be shot by Harry one year later, send her flowers too. “She will sail for Europe as soon as she is able. I hear Harry Thaw will not go with her, but will follow soon afterward. She has been the most pampered patient in the private hospital at No. 33 East Thirty-third street. A hundred dollars’ worth of flowers are sent to her daily, and the posies don’t all come from Harry K.” (TT, v. 53, 1905, p. 6)
”Proper”
After Mrs. Thaw—Harry's mother—had overcome her difficulties with her son's marriage to Evelyn Nesbit, she demanded respectable behavior from her son. In return, he was to receive a higher annual allowance. This led to him refraining from the escapades of bachelorhood which he normally enjoyed. “Harry Thaw, like many sons of the rich, has mingled much with the frivolous gaieties of life, scattering his money with a prodigality that created the widest comment, is now conducting himself in a sedate and extremely proper manner that shows the levelness of his head.” (TT, v. 54, 1905, p. 7) Look at “Playboy” for more information!
Social
Town Topics often commented on Harry Thaw’s social life, which was reportedly quite active and included throwing dinner parties. “Several young men about town, who a couple of years ago were known to be on more than speaking terms with Harry Thaw . . .” (TT, v. 56, 1906, unpaginated) & “Mr. Thaw was not interesting and his allowance was not so great as many believed. But he had a more potent attraction than either cleverness or money–the power to attach himself to stage favorites. . . . the prettiest and most interesting of the footlight beauties were always available for his feasts. That was the magnet.” (TT, v. 56, 1906, p. 4)
Playboy
Harry may have stopped living that lavish lifestyle after he and Evelyn Nesbit got married, all because of an agreement with his mother. There are quite a few comments in Town Topics about his lifestyle and treatment of women. See, for example, the quote under “Proper,” where a specific behavior of Harry is described (TT, v. 54, 1905, p. 7) & “Mrs. Thaw has, in an interview, lent further interest to the affair by declaring that on the night of the famous ‘Beauty Dinner’ in Paris, her son was with Willing Spencer, Ernest Iselin, Bradley Martin, Jr., and ‘William Burden’.” (TT, v. 56, 1906, unpaginated) This following quote implicates that Harry was interested in underage girls: “I wonder if Mr. Wadsworth will be invited to Amsterdam avenue, and if he will be accompanied by a certain high-browed bachelor of the Newport set whose mighty name has heretofore cloaked his preferences for the pretty little girls of the stage–those under eighteen particularly–and who liked Harry Thaw because Harry was very popular in that element?” (TT, v. 60, 1908, p. 4)
”Boisterous”
Continuing with the description of Harry's lavish behavior, it's clear that he does not have a friendly reputation: “Besides, places like Sherry’s did not smile favorably on Harry Thaw’s patronage. He had a reputation for being–er–slightly boisterous when the service did not please him. He kicked like a steer when de Trabadello made him pay $500 for singing two songs.” (TT, v. 56, 1906, pp. 4, 5)
”Insane”
In the issue of Town Topics published after Harry shot Stanford White on the rooftop of Madison Square Garden, there is a quote from the inspector investigating the case that openly states a plea of insanity. “The police decided the case in advance. Inspector Schmittberger said: ‘We have already plenty of proof to show premeditated murder; Thaw’s only hope is insanity.’” (TT, v. 55, 1906, p. 1)
Harry's only hope of avoiding the electric chair was to plead insanity, a strategy that was publicized extensively. “Thaw was acquitted upon the plea of insanity at the time he murdered Stanford White . . . No attempt was made to prove Thaw’s sanity on the night of the murder.” (TT, v. 59, 1908, unpaginated) & “Judge Olcott and his associates, the original counsel in the case, told Mrs. Thaw that, the murder being admitted, the only plea which could save Harry from the electric chair was hereditary insanity.” (TT, v. 62, 1909, p. 12)
Harry soon became a measure of insanity and was included in comparisons and rhetorical figures. “Is Harry Thaw any more crazy than the ex-Countess of Yarmouth . . .” (TT, v. 59, 1908, p. 6) & “Why should Jerome continue to neglect his duties here, leaving the Tombs overcrowded and the courts clogged, to go to Poughkeepsie and vent his personal spite upon Harry Thaw, who is probably as sane as a cigarette-doped District Attorney? Thaw is ready to throw dice for a dollar, the drinks and liberty, best three out of five to win, and the affair can be settled in half an hour–the loser to go to Matteawan.” (TT, v. 59, 1908, p. 10)
”Conspicuous”
This description illustrates the unusual situation of a wealthy member of high society sitting in the Tombs, Manhattan's prison at the time. “Some one [sic] put in circulation a story at Newport that Moncure Robinson is a friend of the most conspicuous prisoner in the Tombs, and that they used to go around New York together. Mr. Robinson does not know the man, at least he has not known him since the death of Stanford White.” (TT, v. 56, 1906, pp. 4, 5)
”Wilful”
Town Topics sympathized with Harry’s half-brother Benjamin Thaw, who was the financial supervisor of the family. “It is Benjamin who is the real head of the Thaw estate and it was his bright financial mind that directed investments which have earned handsome dividends and made it possible for the widow Thaw to allow her idol, the wilful [sic] Harry, the extra thousands that have been his ruination.” (TT, v. 57, 1907, p. 8)
Chivalric
Harry’s actions are portrayed as a heroic act of love and protection for his wife Evelyn Nesbit, because Stanford White is accused of sexual assaulting and raping her. “Whether it be true or false does not matter, so long as Mrs. Thaw told it to her husband and he believed it and was excited and incited to kill White“ & “The innate chivalry of manhood has been touched by the useless and vicious questions of the District Attorney as to the minutiae of unchastity.” (TT, v. 57, 1907, pp. 10, 11)
This highly problematic approach to excuse his actions is made clear by the following quote, in which reference is made to the “unwritten law”: “. . . when a woman tells a man the story of her foul wrongs he is not criminally responsible for killing the person she accuses, and that the truth or falsity of her statement is immaterial so long as he believes it and acts upon it. This has been the law–called ‘the unwritten law’–ever since men had wives and daughters. Why should the District Attorney again drag the public over the filthy details of the Thaw case when this law is so plain and has been so recently and emphatically reasserted?” (TT, v. 58, 1907, pp. 10, 11)
Furthermore, his actions are made relatable through Town Topics. “Thaw was acquitted upon the plea of insanity at the time he murdered Stanford White, and this verdict, due to the utter inefficiency of the District Attorney, puts every man in the community at the mercy of any young fellow who chooses to resent a real or imaginary insult to his ‘girl’.” (TT, v. 59, 1908, unpaginated)
”Overbearing”
His behavior as a young boy living in Pittsburgh, PA, foreshadows his later lavish behavior. “Thaw was always disliked by the only element in Pittsburg that counts for anything, and for years he hung around the public billiard-rooms, where his overbearing manner was tolerated because he was easy picking for the young bounders who, unable to get into clubs, infest such places. The older half-brothers are very much disgusted with the whole matter” (TT, v. 59, 1908, unpaginated)
Paranoid
During the second trial, experts who held senior positions in insanity clinics were brought in to examine Harry. Although the judges quoted in Town Topics are not experts and diagnosed Harry with paranoia. “Judge Mills will be unanimously indorsed by the public opinion in his decision that Harry Thaw was a paranoic when he killed Stanford White, is a paranoic now, and would be subject to paranoiacal delusions and criminalities if he were set at liberty to menace the community.” (TT, v. 62, 1909, p. 12)
Psychiatrist Dr. Allan McLane Hamilton compared Theodore Roosevelt's behavior to that of Harry Thaw and his illness and be therefore send to Matteawan State Hospital for the Criminally Insane, located in Beacon, NY.: “There is a well-known disorder, called Paranoia reformatoria, which is expressed in erratic attempts at social betterment when none are needed and in disorderly efforts falling far short of accomplishment. This is the scientific and charitable view. Roosevelt is the Harry Thaw of politics and should be sent to Matteawan.” (TT, v. 67, 1912, unpaginated)
Escapee
The Tombs prison in Manhattan was the site of a prisoner escape, about which there is no further coverage. This event is mentioned briefly in an issue, though not in any specific detail: ”Harry Thaw’s escape proved a great nuisance to the William Thaw, 3d [sic], who have rented a cottage at Southampton, L. I., and are revelling in the society of the Bohemian smart set, headed by John Drew. Much to their disgust they were continually rung up by reporters and editors asking them if Harry was with them and would they abet his escape had they the opportunity.” (TT, v. 70, 1913, pp. 6, 7)
”Sane”
After Harry's escape to New Hampshire was revealed, he was apprehended and brought before a commission there. “Harry Thaw is declared by a New Hampshire commission to be perfectly sane now, whatever he may have been when he murdered Stanford White, and not in any way a menace to the community.” (TT, v. 71, 1914, p. 10)
This opened up a certain question which is not further discussed: “How can a person be insane in one State and sane in another?” (TT, v. 71, 1914, p. 10)
Murderous
After escaping from prison, Harry was caught in New Hampshire. Since he was declared sane, the possibility of his release arose, which made three people afraid: “Thereupon Thaw professes a desire to go back to Pittsburgh and engage in business. Then we hear from three objectors. One is Evelyn Nesbit, who would lose her vaudeville advertising if Thaw’s sanity were established by his conduct. Another is an ex-District Attorney , [sic] who would lose his job. The third is Dr. Austin Flint, who has lost his head and asserts that ‘Money did it!’ These three objectors agree in predicting that Thaw, if released, will murder one or all of them.” (TT, v. 71, 1914, p. 10)
”Coward”
What was earlier described as chivalric behavior now changed to be cowardly. “But there is no law, written or unwritten, that excuses Thaw for shooting him in the back–the act of a miserable coward, not an insanely chivalric husband. Thaw’s trial, properly conducted, should have sent him to the chair or to Matteawan for life.” (TT, v. 71, 1914, pp. 10, 11)
Famous
The Town Topics advice section mentioned that people will remember Harry Thaw’s name and actions because he became famous through the murder trials. His name will always be remembered.
“Oh, Harry Thaw, and can it be The limelight shines upon your fame, And in the future we shall see Naught in the journals but your name?” (TT, v. 72, 1914, p. 12) &
“News items come, news items go, And quickly they’re forgotten, As any fleeting flake of snow Or flying bit of cotton.
From stock reports to plays by Shaw, We tire of dull or clever; But War, Rea Tanzer, and Harry Thaw, These three go on forever!” (TT, v. 77, 1917, unpaginated)
Abandoning
During Evelyn Nesbit and Harry's divorce proceedings, Harry reportedly refused to accept paternity of Evelyn's son, despite her claims that he was his. “The cute little boy whose paternity has recently been questioned in the courts by Harry Thaw–Evelyn’s child–seemed to be little concerned by his antecedents when I saw him at luncheon with his mother’s dancing partner and friend, Jack Clifford, at the Claridge last Tuesday.” (TT, v. 74, 1915, pp. 16, 17)
Avenger
Harry’s actions and descriptions of being chivalric leads to the Saunterer remembering him as the savior of Damsel in Distress. “Though no Harry Thaw may arise to avenge the wrongs of outraged maidenhood, the hook may accomplish the same end.” (TT, v. 76, 1916, unpaginated)